Spicing up the Baby Dancing

chonny - your DH sounds the opposite of mine! Although my DH does want to know when I am due to ovulate, he'll still want it anytime I'm willing to give it to him! I would just say to your DH that everytime you BD is an opportunity to get pregnant - cos in reality it is!

Angiebabe, i'm lucky if i get it once a month! It's only if i tell him that im ovulating that i usually actually get it

i wish it were that easy.........

he claims that because (as christians) it was drummed into him sex is bad, that it means he doesn't want it all the time..... almost three years after being married, it doesn't sit right with me.....but oh well....sorry if TMI

Hi everyone. Just thought I'd say that I have really appreciated reading all your advice as we are having the same problems. Thanks heaps

Oh you poor thing. Perhaps your DH needs counselling (sp?) to get over the whole sex is dirty thing, either that or try slipping some viagra into his dinner lol

Chonny, just a thought, but do you think it might help if you perhaps spiced it up a bit, or approached him when he least expects it? Sorry if its TMI, but I know for a fact that most guys can't resist waking up to a bit of a roll in the hay, as it were, ie. waking him up by a bit of touchy feely. Feel free to tell me this is none of my business, just thought that from what you have been saying, you haven't really got anything to lose by trying.

Also you could sit down with him and write down all the things he likes you to do to him (in THAT way) and you do the same. You put them in a jar and each day, or every 2nd day (whatever suits you) you pull one out, and have to do it before the end of the day.

I guess if all else fails then perhaps it is time he saw a councillor regarding some of his deep set personal issues with sex. (coming from a Psychology student here) it is likely that his being raised christian has done some damage in the way he regards sex, and a councillor could definitely help. But I guess that is all based on him actually wanting to go, but I would say that he would be eager to work thru it for the sake of your relationship.

All the best with this, I hope you get some sort of resolution soon.

Thanks bumblefoot, that's a relaly good idea about the notes etc.

This is probably tmi but we are trying by just lubing him up and going in me straight away. seems to be working. Otherwise previously he has been trying to get me ready for fun and by the time i'm ready enough to take him, he's about to blow.

Yea sorry probably WAY TMI!

Deffinately food for thoughyt tho. Thanks.

Good luck to all those testing over the next few days.

Babydust to all....

Chonny

yea we have used them in the past, but DH doesn't like that lack of sensation. lol

ain't it the truth
lol

Bfing only works if its exclusive and i'm also pretty sure that you still have to be doing night feeds. There are plenty of people on here who are pg and still bfing.