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Hugs Rianna, I'm sorry to hear your sad news

I felt exactly the same way about starting again, I remember feeling almost ashamed to ask the OB that did my d and c when we could TTC again coz I felt like I was betraying my angel but all I wanted was to be pregnant again.

Thinking of you,
Emma

I'm really sorry for your loss. I remember feeling the same way, I couldn't wait to get pregnant again, felt like I needed to fill the void or something. Take care and do what you need to get through it.

I had a miscarriage in March, at the scan when baby should have been 6 weeks but only measured 4 (was just a tiny empty sac) I just wanted it all to be over. Luckily (if that is the right word) I started bleeding 2 days later and miscarried naturally. I also didn't want to have to go through a DNC. I think it is totally natural that once we know things aren't right that we just want it to be over so we can start moving on and definitely allow yourself time to grieve.

Hi Rianna, as you can see so many of us have gone through the same thing and we have all felt exactly the same - devastated! I understand about moving on as quickly as possible, i too wanted that but feel that having the last few months to properly let go has ben good for me but each to their own and you do what is right for you and your hubby.

Losing a bub is bloody hard becuase no-one except you and your hubby (and others that go though this) know what it truly feels like. some can not understand how you can get so attached to something so little in such few weeks.

I wish you all the best for your future, take care of yourself! x

I lost my baby at 8 weeks and found out at the 12 week scan.. so I know how it feels and wanted to send big hugs to you...i was so angry in the beginning then just sad...we were forced to wait three months which for me was good in the end..but very hard..

I had a DandC as I couldn't face passing my baby at my house(and it had already been 5 weeks) as losing her was hard enough let alone doing that as well..but it's totally a personal thing ..

all of us are here to talk if you need to (or just get angry) ..

Oh rianna I'm so sorry to hear about your loss

Just sent you hugs in the Planning Preg forum but this forum is really the right place for that. MC is such a s**t thing to go through (sorry about lang) it makes me so mad and sad that we have to experience it.

If you want to TTC straight away I reckon you should just go for it and do what feels right for you and what feels healing.



I had natural MC this May and last June - both times were different for bleeding. MC1 a week of heavy clotty blood, this time much longer duration and more spotting - but that was because of some retained tissue that came out naturally in its own good time.


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Mine was just like a period and lasted about 5 days in total. The first day was the worst with bad pains and clots and then the next day was not so great either pain wise then after that it calmed right down. My next period was pretty awful as well though just to pre warn you.

As far as I know it is fine to try straight away if you like, some doctors recommend waiting one cycle but I think that is just so its easier to date not because there is any medical reason to wait. I was told it could take 4-6 weeks to get my next period but my body treated the mc like a normal period and my next arrived its usual 27 days later.

There is a lady in the Jan mummies who got pregnant straight after a mc without having a period in between, she was still waiting for AF to arrive when she realised she was pg.

Hope they can help you out at the hospital today

Hope you went OK at the hospital Rianna I went to the ED when I was losing our baby and they organised the d and c within a few hours.