Ways to make your 3 year old listen to you

What are some ways that you could make a three year old listen to you? My daughter likes her independence and she decides what she likes to dress or eat. I tried to tell her that as a mother I make rules and she follows and she immediately said no she makes it and I follow. I had my mother and my mother-in-law take care of her while I worked and their way of pampering her made her so strong headed. Me and my husband take turns to take care of her in the morning and evening because of our jobs. She listens to him as he’s more strict with her but I was lenient with her till now. Now when i am trying to change my parenting style , i am not being able to make her listen to me. https://showbox.tools/ https://speedtest.vet/

Edited by Marnel267586 - 10 June 2021 at 11:07pm