Naming baby

Was just wondering, how many of you ever actually named your babys that you lost.   We had pretty much set our sights on naming our baby Sage, either way, for girl or boy. so we are sticking with that.   

You don't have to share if you don't want to. Just wondering what others have done.

I have always wanted a tattoo but could never find one or think of anything i wanted. However after we had our second scan, we were sitting there one night and it came to me. Somehow, monarchs have been incorporated into alot of our lives.. our garden is full of them constantly they come and land on the swing when the girls are on it. So i thought i would get a tattoo done of two monarch butterflies on a branch with a chrysalis on it to symbolise the stages of our children. it just popped into my head as the right one to get.

I also think it's because i want one that no-one needs to know about.. in other words.. if they see it normally they might think "oh, that's nice, how pretty" but they don't need to know the meaning unless i chose to share it with them.

We didn't name our lost baby but I did think about it. I think it is a very nice thing to do.

yeah Im getting my tattoo on friday and its basically stars down my back with the kids names in it, I chose stars because they are also for the twins. I always think loved ones who has passed are now stars so I kind of thought it represents them all. I was thinking of getting the chinese symbol for angel in one of the stars but think it might look a bit funny.
Annnnnd after just posting my first reply on here I was having a nosey on the treasures forum and someone there has joined up calling themselves my 2 angels
I know its silly but I feel a bit annoyed about it to be honest, mainly cos as i have only just mentioned to me that is my lost babies and now someone is using the name!!!

that's ok to feel annoyed. we all know the naming saga i have had with my little sis.. i mean i wouldn't mind in normal circumstances but each time she has ONLY chosen the one name we had picked for a boys name.. to use as her little boys names.
I am worried to tell mum that we have named baby. I do not know if she ever told carrie what we were planning to call it anyway. i spose hopefully she wouldn't be so cruel as to name her baby Sage knowing that's what we called ours. Better to tell her i spose though in case she decided to use it..    I think that would be the last straw.

I think I said before, when my friend was younger her parents lost a baby and let her name him, she was three at the time and called him rainbow

I had a very heavy and clotty bleed with Jacob before I knew I was pregnant (well, the day I found out) and I actually thought one of the clots looked like a baby (I t=know this is TMI) I cried and cried, becasue I thought the baby I suspected I was having was gone. My HGCs went from sky sky high to very low, so it was a whole weekend of not knowing. Of couse, it turned out ok, but I still think that Jacob was a twin, and in my mind, that baby was Matthew.

We haven't named our baby that we lost - I'm not sure if I am in denial that it never happened, or just don't want to name it. I was given a yellow living gerbera plant the day we found out on our ultra-sound that baby had no heartbeat, so I will treasure that and remember baby with that!

We are planning to get a special container and then bury that container in a beautiful pot beneath some calla lillies. i love calla lillies and i received heaps of these from workmates etc after loosing baby, so ithink that's about right. I have baby, stillin it's container, inside the brown bag, and have not looked, i don't know if i ever will. I know it's there, that's alli need.

I had a MC at 11 weeks in February. We planted a tree in the garden in rememberance.
I am now 7 weeks and keeping fingers, toes and legs closed!!!