your welcome - hope all went well today - fingers crossed and baby dust
don't know if you have tried any overseas message boards - I know on
Fertility Friend they have quite a number of people who are using donor sperm from all over the world, although you do have to become a VIP (ie spend money) to be able to access their forums, another option is to look for a site closer to home (ie in australia)
good luck and let me know how you get on