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tjgirl1 
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Posted: 25 July 2005 at 6:37pm |
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Solo mum/Dad
Are there any support groups for young solo parents out there?? Are there any other parents out there who are bringing their kids up alone??
If you are do you want to chat? meet up?
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AlyAyde
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Posted: 25 July 2005 at 9:07pm |
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there was a couple of threads ill find and bump
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Jayde 25/12/04
Alyssa 08/04/03
http://Alyayde.bebo.com
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Maya
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Posted: 26 July 2005 at 1:25pm |
I was a single mum to my little girl from the time she was 3 mths until she was nearly two. It was tough, especially as Maya was sick and ended up in hospital a few times, and I had no support from her dad, and my family are all overseas, but she is a beautiful, happy little girl, and I think we have an even closer relationship because of all that we have been thru together. Her dad and I got back together in January, and that's been a rocky road too, (sometimes I think being a single mum was easier  ) but I feel like my time as a single mum has made me stronger and more independent.
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Donna.I
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Posted: 26 July 2005 at 3:56pm |
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To find support, ring your local citizens advise bureau. There are many listed throughout the country. I really hope that you can find one suitable. Many do not understand the isolation, the loneliness. But there are the many positives too. I'm a single mum to five kids, ages 3 - 18. My older two kids have left home now, and I also have a really cute grandson who is 15mths old.
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Posted: 27 July 2005 at 5:36pm |
I'm 20, a single Mum and going through the whole paternity process at the moment.
It's going to be over by September at the very latest! YAY!
I'm in Wellington
Very important to have a good support network and I'm more than happy to be part of that on here, or in person if you are ever in Wellington 
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Posted: 28 July 2005 at 1:27pm |
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I was a single mum from the christmas before Kiya was born (she was born end of March) until I married Nathaniel in January last year. Nathaniel is not Kiya's biological dad.
It can be tough, but also incredibly rewarding. I grew up rather fast - I had to. I'd just turned 20 when I found out I was pregnant. D has had nothing to do with Kiya - his choice, so I had to be both Mum and Dad to her. Oh - it is definitly a lot of fun. And you know that unconditional love a child has for its parents? You don't have to share it!
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 29 July 2005 at 3:51pm |
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Apparently I have to. My sister is Hannah's "Dad" (poor kid is going to have an identity crisis when she grows up)
Sometimes I think Hannah loves Jute more than me (and there is definitely no competition the other way around, Jute would quite happily ditch me to have Hannah as her own! - I've even been told that she is taking Hannah for a year while I go overseas. And that was not negotiable!!!)
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lizzle
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Posted: 29 July 2005 at 7:32pm |
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Just out of curiosity Nikki, your sister name is Jute? where did her name come from?
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 01 August 2005 at 5:32pm |
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Oh, her nickname is Jute, short for Juliet.
I have no idea how it came about? Usually Juliet gets shortened to Jules or something.
People that don't know her very well sometimes call her Jules, but we have just always done the Jute thing!
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Posted: 01 August 2005 at 8:01pm |
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Oh, I thought you were all from some far-off european country....like finland or somehting..
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 01 August 2005 at 10:37pm |
Sorry to dispell the exotic image you had of us
Unfortunately we are good old born and bred Kiwis 
Just with crazy names like Nickaloo [and Ju the poo] from Mamaku.
(Yeah, another strange nicknaming sensation in our family.)
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Posted: 02 August 2005 at 9:57pm |
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Hi I was a single mum @ 19 with Caleb from about 4mnths in2 my preg, ubtil a yr and a half ago, his dad dosnt have sweet F all to do with him, his choice, It was hard but my family was really supportive and also Calebs dads family are also really supportive even though there son isnt. He calls my partner daddy and thats fine with everyone he knows that David hie bio dad helped make him but he knows andrew is his daddy that looks after him and reads him storys every night, i dnt want him to grow up confused about where he came from.. hope this all makes sense... bye for now guys
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