My babys A BABY

I decided pretty early on the sex of jake...a little girl and just convinced myself I was right. i didn't go sa far to buy girlie clothes though, luckily.

Just pick a sex, and pretend you are right. Honestly I thought I would be disappointed with a boy, but once jake was here, i was just so happy i didn't really think about "oh no he's a boy" or anything like that.

Yeah I really want another boy and so does Andrew as he has 2 daughters already, but Im soooooo sure Im carrying a girl, ok this will sound so horrible but I have to get it off my chest, Im scared to have a girl with Andrew as I his youngest daughter is not cute at all,and im scraed our baby will look like her, maybe because im pregnant and when she is here she is so naughty and drives me, his other daughter is gorgeuos but we dont see her every week like the other one, am i a nasty person???? I feel like it, ive had nightmares also that our baby will look like his mother ahhhhh, must just be the hormones, god i feel like a B*&^H

I am not scared but must admitt ...wont want her to look like his mum.....I dont think it is nasty...or B%$chy...I just think it is normal to feel like that.

But I also feel that no matter what my baby looks like, I will love her more than any thing on this world.

My hubby is convinced she will look like me......

Judith, remember its got your genes in there too so may look like you!

yep, have no idea where our girls get their looks from... lol there's bits of me and mike in there but mostly they are way off... must be from mike's mum's side... she's adopted so we have no idea about her family at all!

Lewis as a child had....excess body hair. i was a little worried about jake at first, but even though he had hairy ears, he was pretty cute


BTW the hair came off.

I think it's perfectly natural to wonder and hope what your baby will turn out like. also, i tend to think personality plays a HUGE part in deciding whether I think someone is goodlooking. I met this gorgeous guy once and then he opened his mouth......disgusting racist sexist comments, and got uglier by the minute.

i was also paranoid that my baby would be ugly! everyone always tells you they are beautiful and then behind the parents back are saying 'my god, did you see that ugly baby'!
jack is gorgeous, i think anyway!    
lizzle, i was sure i was having a boy because all i wanted was a girl!! i was right, at the scan we could VERY clearly see he was a boy and i remember the ride home in the car i cried, i was so disappointed!
but i got over that really quickly and now i love my wee man so much.
i'm so scared the next one will be a boy though and then i'll be faced with the tough decision of do we or don't we try for a girl 3rd time.....

gosh thanks so much I feel so much better now, But Andrews mum is a very scary looking women, and Im affraid to say it but his 2nd daughter looks alot like her and Andrews sister, Im sure Andrew was swapped at birth his sis looks just like his mum and his brother looks just like his dad, And well Andrew looks like non of them, maybe he got a good mix from both of them... my son is very much from my genes he looks like Hanson, I have pics of my sis's boy at ther same age and they look like twins and Calebs baby photots are very similar to mine but yes the poor child has some of his dad in him.. now that he satys with my mum when I do see him Im like god you look like your dad... but hes stilla lil Hanson so hopfully this bubs will be to.. my sisters and brothers have gorgeous lil girls... My mum really wantrs a girl because she want a "proper" grandaughter.. as my they have 12 gran kids alrerady an all the girls are from my sisters and brother that are from dads previous marriage.. and my twin sis has no babies yer and my older sis has a boy and isnt going to have any more... so id like to give her a girl but i just sooooo badly want another lil boy.. bringing up caleb has been such a wonderful forfulling time im scared a girl would be different... i must sound crazy..

LMAO nikki - I thought you had writen SMELLY babies, not smiley babies

Hehe, Maya changes her own wet nappies. She is only in a nappy at night, and if it is just wet not dirty she takes it off herself in the morning when she gets up. Luckily she's not so keen on taking the dirty ones off herself.. yet