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Kazzle 
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 5:04pm |
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I am utterly devasted, my brother has just rung me to ask me how you know your having a miscarriage, cos his girlfriend is bleeding and having major cramps, so ive told him to go to the after hours, even though they probably wont be able to do anything as she is only about 5.5wks along...im utter devasted for my brother and his girlfriend.
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katie1
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 5:18pm |
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Oh no. That is terrible. Fingers crossed that it will turn out ok and will hopefully just be a one off bleed. My friend bled three times in her first three months and had a healthy baby.
So hard for you too when it is all so fresh in your own mind.
Thinking of you. Keep us posted.
Big hugs.
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Kazzle
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 6:33pm |
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im so annoyed at the hospital, they went to the a&e and they said its just a threatened miscarriage, they think she is further along than 5 wks, and to have a scan when they get back to palmy....HELLO why couldnt they do one there.
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 6:54pm |
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 6:58pm |
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aww babe that sucks! hugs to you, your brother and his girlfriend! Hope it works out ok!
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 7:05pm |
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thanks guys, i am just upset for my brother, its bad enough having to go through it myself, but having my little brother having that scare is horrible
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 7:12pm |
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If it is a mc, i feel for your brothers GF! Its so hard to loss a baby wether you are a few weeks along or a few years old! Thinking of you and your family
Just wondering, how are you doing? just reading this makes me remeber when I had a MC and when I lost my son Lucus. ((((HUGS))))
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 7:39pm |
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hopefully your bro and his gf are okay. i bled a ton with taine - so much so I thought I must be miscarrying - but no. hope it's the same for your fam ily! hugs for you
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 8:20pm |
 I hope things work out. Unfortunately scans are not always requested right away because they say they can't do anything anyway. Still, it's not nice for them to have to think and worry all that time without knowing.  When are they back to Palmy? They'll probably know for themselves already in a couple of days.
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 9:03pm |
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thanks guys, they are not back in palmy till saturday, so it will be monday at the earliest, no more cramping or bleeding at this stage, but she is under orders to take it easy, they are staying at mums for a couple of days so will go out tomorrow to see how she is doing.
As for me, i cried and cried when i heard, its still so fresh for me, and i just hate seeing my friends and family hurt
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 9:17pm |
I have to say Kaz, if they go into the hospital in Palmy on Monday she will be under the care of a great OB up here.
Hopefully and fingers crossed she doesn't MC.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 10:10pm |
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Big hugs to you and family
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 6:21pm |
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well sadly she lost the baby today, as you can imagine they are both gutted, im just pleased i could be there for them, they are on their way back to palmy as she wants to be with her mum.
My heart goes out to them
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 6:23pm |
big big hugs for your familiy 
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 7:02pm |
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Oh that's terrible, don't know what else to say, is so sad that it happens to anyone.
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 7:27pm |
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its strange really, as my brother isnt someone who talks about how he is feeling or shows how he is feeling, so his girlfriend Jess has been good for him, and ive had a load of txts from him, talking to me about what has happened, and did he do something wrong etc etc, all the usual questions.
I never thought it would be something this painful and heartbreaking that would bring my brother and I closer but yeah...so gutted for them, but she is doing okay, she knows there was a reason and in her words "she is young still (18) plenty of time yet to have a family"
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 8:01pm |
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thats so sad, and what a wonderful sis and sil to help them out in their time of need.
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 8:06pm |
Am really sorry Kazzle.
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 8:18pm |
 To your brother and partner Kazzle
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Posted: 02 November 2007 at 9:56pm |
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Kazzle - I am so sad to hear about your brother and his gf's mc. He is very lucky to have you be so open and able to give advice at this difficult time.
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