secondary infertility anyone?

Hey Tiger Lily, yup.. secondary infertility here too... slightly different story to you tho..
But definately understand how you feel with the comments about only child.. how its selfish etc etc... ours have kind of dropped off now, but when DS was 2 every 2nd person felt it was their place to critise the fact that he was (and still is) an only child, which was absolutely heart breaking for us.
But I would definately pop along to your GP, they will be able to run standard bloods to make sure you're ovulating etc, and may be able to put your mind at ease.
Depending on how long you have been trying one of the fert clinics might not be a bad idea, but I would try GP 1st, they may even refer you on.
Good luck to you & hope #2 isnt far away :)

Yup me!! Its very frustrating as its unexplained after getting preg with #1 after one uncareful night. Seeing a specialist but no real answers as to why we are having problems. Its almost worse not knowing why because at least if you know you can make a plan but when you dont know you feel helpless. And dont get me started at the number of people who make insensitive comments!

^ thank you, what exactly will a Naturopath do?
Do they do an assessment of you or do you just walk in and they throw some pills at you?

My hubby is still in the "she'll be right" camp, he doesn't understand why it upsets me so much, don't get me wrong he's definitely support and willing to listen, but I guess the yearning isn't there for him, he's so besotted with our little girl, he's asked me a few times why she isn't enough.
I don't know how to explain it to him, I always saw us as a family of 5, I fantasised about having 3 little girls, it's more like a mourning for the future that hasn't happened, it that makes sense? Much like I guess it is for primary infertility

I'm too late in my cycle for the CD2 blood test, but thought I might see about the CD21 test anyway as a start. I've had the same GP for 10 years and although he's lovely this feels like a very private issue, it's not anything about him, it's more how I feel, I think I'd almost be more comfortable talking to a virtual stranger about ie: fertility specialist.
I'm thinking of making a private initial appointment anyway, I think the waitlist is 6 months for our area, I probably won't be able to get in privately until Jan/Feb.

Thanks for all your kind comments

me to!
We got preg first month trying five years ago. We are unexplained and have had ten unsuccessful iui rounds and one ivf round and two fet without success.
We are just starting ivf round two!
And it is hard not having. Wee bro or sis for no one, you mourne for what u don't have!