Thanks heaps Lu
Def a good thing to have a name & help for Brae's condition
I have to say the hardest part of being his Mum, is the feeling that I have done this to him
The feeling I get when he resists entering Doctors, Dentists, preschool etc or even going outside by himself, the looks people give me when he is throwing an all mighty tantrum, kicking & banging his head against the wall! Sometimes it makes me so mad, sometimes embarrassed, sad, hurt, sometimes I feel like throwing a tantrum myself.
One time I went out for Dinner with DP, the MIL & BIL looked after the boys. Unlike other kids Brae continued to howl, scream & cry for hours after- throwing, kicking, banging, climbing up the walls like he was possessed. Which really freaked them out
I hate the comments I get that it is normal for some kids to be shy & go through phases. He will grow out of it.
Well if its normal, why arent other kids his age(4.5yrs) behaving in that manner? It is now seriously interfering with & hindering our everyday lives