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Babymumma!
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Topic: Young mums. Posted: 24 April 2012 at 2:45pm |
Hi all, I am 18 and have found out im 5weeks preggers. Is there any other young mums out there that I could chat with?
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dneyn
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Posted: 29 April 2012 at 7:43pm |
I was a young mum. Old now though haha. Had my first at 18, was a solo mum to. My parents were quite supportive though. Friends not so much. But he is now 12 and I'm happy with what I did. I know m older but happy to chat if you want.
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MissGenevieve
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Posted: 07 May 2012 at 12:29am |
just turned 19 and i'm 7 weeks pregnant
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Babymumma!
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Posted: 07 May 2012 at 9:00am |
Thanks dneyn. Thats really useful to know. I am doing ok at the moment. Just trying to get paswt that 12week mark to start telling everybody.
Hi MissGenevieve I believe we belong to the same group of FB. I am also due in decmeber
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dneyn
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Posted: 07 May 2012 at 10:11am |
Babyxmas-I think plunket might run young mum coffee groups now too. It's really nice having people in the same boat as you. Otherwise no matter how old you are when bubs is here it can be quite isolating. And try find antenatal classes for teen mums too.
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Mumof1littleboy
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 6:06pm |
Im 22 and just found out im pregnant!
Around 5-6weeks i think but will find out at my scan next week
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LILLIS
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Posted: 10 May 2012 at 2:30pm |
I too "was" a young mum
I was 16 when my first was born so if you ever want to chat then I am happy to help out where I can.
I recommend antenatal for young people, found it really good and a coffee group for young mums also helps.
Good luck with your pregnancies ladies
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Rexy
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Posted: 12 May 2012 at 11:54am |
Suppose I count as a young mum... 21 and pregnant with my first. Girl due September :)
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Rexy
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Posted: 15 May 2012 at 8:12pm |
so where's everybody from? :)
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MissGenevieve
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Posted: 16 May 2012 at 9:45am |
Living in Auckland City while my partner and I study but originally from Tauranga and that's where i'll be having the baby :)
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chatrbox
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Posted: 19 June 2012 at 10:27am |
Hey guys have you heard of Thrive Teen Parent Support Trust out in Mt Albert? They do young parent classes and playgroups, antenatal as well, all designed for young parents and no cost involved :D Playgroups are in Henderson, New Lynn and St Lukes currently - can ring on 551 4367 for more details if you're interested or check out www.thrive.org.nz or you can find them on facebook too.
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carissatorbarina
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Posted: 21 June 2012 at 8:11pm |
Hello all :) Im 19 and 9 weeks pregnant living on the North Shore, Auckland. would love to chat with other expecting young mums
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MissGenevieve
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Posted: 22 June 2012 at 7:25pm |
hi carissatorbarina, congrats on your pregnancy :)
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Tasha94
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Posted: 23 June 2012 at 8:51am |
hi there, im 17 and am 14 weeks pregnant! not sure how to break it to my family but am super thrilled! if anyone has any advice i would love to chat to you!!
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Posted: 23 June 2012 at 8:22pm |
Congrats to you both :)
on the breaking the news, I think it depends on the type of person you are and they are. When I told my mum I was just like "don't be mad but I'm pregnant" and she was stoked. But if they're more reserved and likely to be upset, might be better to sit down and have a grown up chat.
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MissGenevieve
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Posted: 24 June 2012 at 10:13pm |
I was TERRIFIED to tell my parents. come from a religious family and parents who don't drink alcohol etc but when i told them (over the phone! we live in different cities) they were disappointed but surprisingly took it well. that was 8 weeks ago now and they are so excited for the arrival of their first grandchild.
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carissatorbarina
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Posted: 25 June 2012 at 8:40am |
I think your best to be honest and tell them how you really feel about being pregnant. With my mum, i expected the worst but when I told her how excited I was she was really supportive and excited too, and now she cant wait till baby comes! I think your family will be shocked but support you no matter what as long as YOU are happy :)
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Tasha94
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Posted: 25 June 2012 at 10:22am |
Ive told my mum and shes thrilled. The scary part are my grandparents, I know straight away what they will be like, dissapointed and very very angry. I dont know whether to leave it and let them find out on their own or tell them.
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TheKelly
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Posted: 02 July 2012 at 11:15pm |
I was 19 when I got pregnant with my eldest,my gran didn't talk to me for the whole time I was pregnant.
Now 10 years later we are back on track and have a great relationship,and she loves my daughter too.
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Posted: 05 July 2012 at 11:56am |
Im 17 and 12 weeks 4 days pregnant,Was a shock as I got pregnant on the pill but me and my partner are very happy and cant wait till baby's here. Free to talk to young mums whenever
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