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mum2paris
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Topic: AARRRGGGHHH! WHAT NEXT?! Posted: 23 February 2006 at 10:13pm |
ok, so i am officially sick of taking kids to the doctors - tonight was the second time in 3 days that we have been, only this time for ayja and it was my fault!
Miss Ayja was asleep in her carseat when we got home, so i got her out of it, cradled her in my arms, and tried to hurry inside cos the wind was cold and i didn't want to wake her up or get her too cold. Clumsy me tripped and fell didn't i?! and well, with her in my arms there was no way to get my balance back, so now i have a huge bleeding graze on my knee, also right down the hand i tried to put out to stop us hitting the ground and on the back of the wrist of my other hand that was craddling ayja, and hello - after all that, we still hit the ground, i still fell on top of her and her head hit the concrete and skidded along it. so now, in EXACTLY the same spot as the huge haematoma was from her fall at 6 days old, she now has another huge big red egg, (actually i think it's bigger, and it's hard this time), and her head is all grazed and bleeding.
am officially over taking kids to the doctors...they're gonna set up a VIP carpark right outside for us soon.
am sick of being the one that drops Ayja (come on, how clumsy am i?! ...
am starting to wonder what people must think of me...
and i am afraid what is going to happen next! (i just might stay in bed tomorrow morning, just in case!)
grrr
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Posted: 23 February 2006 at 10:26pm |
Big hugs Janine. If its any consolation my sisters dropped me on my head on numerous occasions as a baby and im ok, I think
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Posted: 23 February 2006 at 10:57pm |
oh hunny i do feel for u someone said on here that your not a real mum till u hurt bubs (accedently of course) james fell of my kneen and whacked his big head on the floor today so now i feel bad big hugs and heres to a better day tomorrow
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 6:38am |
Oh Janine what a time you are having!! Don't feel bad and no one thinks anything about you other than your a good mum. Accidents happen and it sounds like you managed to hurt yourself pretty well trying to save ayja. As the saying goes sh*t happens unfortunately it seems to happen to you. Your a good mum!!
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 8:02am |
Hugs Janine, I always worry that will happen when I carry Joey in the front pack. Don't be so hard on yourself!!!
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 8:47am |
awww janine! big
i was carrying jack out of my room the other day (he was eating cat bikkies again) and smacked his head on the door frame! he burst into tears, a large red lump came up for all to see.
then that night i was carrying him into bed and smacked his head in the same spot almost on the door to his room!
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 1:55pm |
mmmm hannah is quite familiar with door frames. more often than not i whack her head on them as i go through doors!
janine, honestly, i've given up counting the amount of times i have tripped when carrying hannah down or up stairs and it is by sheer luck that i have never actually fallen. (actually i did fall one on a slippery ramp, but again, sheer luck that hannah's head landed on my arm - but geez that was sore! lotsa grazes for me! and in front of all the passengers on the cable car )
hopefully you'll get a break in doctor visits. no one is judging you babe!!
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 2:03pm |
Yeah, jake is lucky he eats lots of yohurt for strong healthy bones. I was "helping" him down the slide at playgroup today and he fell, hitting his head three times on the way down. it bled.
So Janine, yuo are by no means the only mum to hurt their kid accidently, just the only one who's owned up recenlty
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Posted: 24 February 2006 at 2:56pm |
Oh Janine, you are having a rough time. Big hugs. Hope its been an accident free day today.
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Posted: 01 March 2006 at 1:35pm |
Oh Janine...We dont think that you are bad mum ..these things happen.
When Zaara was 1 month old I was preparing her bath in our bathroom and opened the glass door thingie and forgot to close it....obviously after bath I turned around with her to get out...smack!!! She screamed I looked at her and she had a small red bump on her forehead.....I started to cry and phoned my mum crying my eyes out telling her what a bad mum I am...all the while Zaara stopped crying and was looking at me......she was fine....
Ayja will be fine and again you cant avoid these things......dont be so hard on your self!!
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Posted: 01 March 2006 at 2:40pm |
I must have missed this thread somehow...
I hope Miss Ayja is feeling better - and I know what you mean about the VIP carpark lol! Now I have a new Gp within walking distance and even then I sometimes wonder if I should just take my sleeping bag and camp out there
And if you're a bad Mum love, the rest of us must be shockers!
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Posted: 01 March 2006 at 9:25pm |
Hey ladies - she's fine, as usual - think we might start calling her crash cos she is constantly banging head lately anyway cos she is climbing stuff and falling heaps - before anyone can get to her!
her graze on her head is nearly gone - just a big icky looking scab there instead.
but otherwise, she's all good. thanks.
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Posted: 01 March 2006 at 10:03pm |
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 8:16am |
My 11month old fell down 14 stairs from our bedroom yesterday! We have a split level house and have 4 stair gaurds throughout except for the top of the stairs in our room where he is always supervised! (not very well obviously)
He knows not to go down them and it had become a bit of a game going to them and laughing at us when we said "no". We had however thought it was a good idea to use these stairs as a training ground for supervised teaching of going backwards down stairs. Anyway to cut a looonnng story short he got a bit too confident and tried to have a go by himself before I could get to him and off he went! THUD THUD THUD THUD THUD etc etc
Luckily when i reached him shaking in fear as to which limbs were going to be broken he cried gave me a huge hug and then started laughing and bouncing up and down............... And no lesson learn't as we went back up so i could finish getting getting dressed and he went straight back over to them!
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 10:17am |
kids! Ya gotta love how resilient they are. Glad both are doing ok.
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 12:04pm |
So this is what we have to look forward to huh deharn?....Thank God I have a no stairs......
I am glad all the mentioned children and mum's are okay!!!
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 1:09pm |
Apparently when I was little I had constant egg like lumps on my head from banging it on things (and I would dare say having others bang it for me). I still hit my head a lot now - dunno why - but I'm ok!! Most of the time....
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 1:27pm |
Sorry to hear that for you. My sister-in-law has three and a high users card at the doctors so i can almost relate to how you feel.
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Posted: 02 March 2006 at 3:33pm |
it bsounds awful, but i think if you protect your kids TOO much, they won't end uplearning stuff. Like someone said before, learning to go up and down steps. I mean, you want to protect them from serious harm, but i don't think a bump of the head, scratches or bruises are too bad. that said, I ahve a little boy, they look much better on boys than girls.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 7:24am |
Hope ya feeling better, these things happen... with little peeople, they are chaos and madness and accidents waiting to happen :D
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