Honestly, what are the chances?!

Of getting pg from *one* lovemaking session??

DF and I finally found time and inclination (after 2 previous interrupted attempts the last week, first by 6 year old, then by baby!)...and now it turns out I think I was ov at the time!  I took a couple of OPKs yesterday and the day before as I was getting really sore pains on my right side tha felt like ov, but I thought no surely not (as my first 'AF' after baby was born was only about 2 days long and hasn't appeared since). Anyway, Wednesday nights test was clear but not as dark as the control line so I thought nah negative cos the pains had stopped too.

 DF and I then 'ahem' the next morning...and I took another OPK just to make sure I was right the day before...and lo it was darker!!! Grrr. Todays was light as so it would seem I have ov and BD (without meaning to) in the 'dangerous' timeframe' IYKMIM.

I'm still fully BF Clodagh although we have introduced a few solids lately...will this affect my ov?

Please tell me there's no way I coud get pg from a oncer, esp given it took nearly a year to get our wee girl. Much as I'd like another baby one day I'm not sure how I'd cope with 2 so close together...gulp.

TIA

I can't help much but I wonder if Sheena will reply...I'm sure Isabella is the result of a oncer... sorry!!!!

nzpipers number 2 is from a oncer at a time when she didn't even think she had ov'd, hers was straight after a m/c.

But having said that loads of women do it for months on end at the exact right time and don't get knocked up.

Nikki must love that we all remember James is from a oncer...lol

Don't mean to hijack your thread but I am in exactly the same boat! My son is only 3 months old and I have this feeling I could be preg - but not due for period for another couple of days and my cycles surely couldn't be back to normal yet??
It took 4 years to make him so we thought the chances would be pretty slim - we weren't doing anything to prevent it. Never assume anything i suppose....
I have the same excited but mortified and terrified feelings.

9 1/2 months between babies???   How is that even physically possible (I mean wanting sex after giving birth lol )?! Urgh that would be so hrd having two that age.

Oh well we shall wait and see. I think it would be bloody funny as well as bloody amazing if I were UTD. From a oncer!? Really? OMG.... *shudders and leaves the room*   

Even feeding 4 hourly you could get pg, I would think that if you have ov'd then you are would be able to get pg, have your periods already returned?

Mine came back a few days ago was enjoying not having them but i suppose this is what happens when your baby finally starts going a little longer between feeds at night

sammyd are you breastfeeding? I found when I got my pg back after having Spencer it was exactly a month after I stopped feeding and then it went straight into my normal 26-28 day cycle, not sure if breastfeeding when they return makes them irregular though.

I know one mum who took 3 years to concieve their first child and happened first month of trying with their 2nd

Hun I got +ive opk's my first 2 cycles but didnt ovulate.. so it is possible that your body is trying to do its thing but the hormones from bf are confusing it.... If its meant to be

yup totally possible. i have known ppl that have got pg from messing around and not having sex during ovulation cos things cos a bit messy IYKWIM. as a general rule you have to BF at least every 4 hours around the clock with no other feeds and even then some ppl can still ovulate so you are not protected. and you can also ovulate before you even get your first period back so even that isnt a guarantee you'll know when your system kicks into gear again.