Single parent by choice question

Hello :)

I'm not a parent yet. But I've wanted to be a mom since I was like 8 years old. I always wanted to be married and have kids before I turned 30, just so I'd have the energy to raise my kids in a fun way. I was with my ex for five years and he convinced me we'd have kids around that age and then a few months before my thirtieth birthday he cheated and dumped me. I started to research sperm donors and in vitro fertilization blah blah I was amped up. I am not set up to be a parent yet. I'm still getting my life together and don't want to drag a kid into chaos. But I'm getting there and once I do, if still single I thought it'd be a great way to have a child. But then I watched a video of dad's and babies, and felt like I would be depriving my child of such an important part of them…

So I have a question to all the single parents here... what's your take on single parenting by choice?? Is it selfish to bring a baby into a solo relationship parent situation?https://shareit.onl/https://appvn.onl/

Edited by Fragi266899 - 03 April 2021 at 8:49am