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Topic: studys on c-sec woman (huge vent Posted: 27 June 2007 at 3:48pm |
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 3:59pm |
and now i,m crying they are just passing the buck around at the hospital and uni it was a very turmattic time for me and now i feel like i am reliving it all over again aggrrrhhhhh i am so mad
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 4:01pm |
I'd be having words with the hospital. I would have thought that this would be a breach of the privacy act.
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 4:09pm |
That really sucks. I would have thought it was a breach in the privacy act as well. You have every right to go mad at them how rude!!!
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 4:39pm |
I,M RELLY UPSET ABOUT THIS i feel like im re living again i already dont want a nother baby as i,m tooscared to go thur all that again now my day suxs
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 4:41pm |
ps sorry emma that i metioned what hospital it was i,m just relly upsett about it
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 9:43pm |
They would of picked it up through your NHI number as that is used quite often to get medical info. They don't usually match it up to a person thou and so asking them for stuff. I would be angry too.
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Posted: 27 June 2007 at 10:01pm |
That has to be a privacy issue - you poor thing! You have every right to be angry and upset.  and  on your behalf.
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 7:51am |
thank ladyas i,m still alittle upset today i told my mum that my whole brithing experince as put me off having more childern she was,nt surprised at all  i think i will just let this one slide but it does make you feel better venting here
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 9:19am |
I'd still put in a formal complaint Lu. I know they have to use medical records for teaching etc but to have a student contact you!?!?!? That's disgusting!  I'd be P'd off too!
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 10:56am |
I'm sorry that their call made you feel horrible Lu... but I'm unsure what they did was illegal... it's a possibility because you gave birth at Dunedin hospital then your details are available for this sort of study. I'm sure you could ring the hospital and request your details don't be given out tho.
Anyway, I just read and article on a study which was done on c-sect mums which was to prove that there was no relation between c-sects and poor infant health - so surely that's a positive thing! Read about it here
I'm sorry that your experience was horrible too... I'm sure you wouldn't have such a terrible time if you did decide to have another baby as you'd go in with a whole lot more info (and support from the OhBaby-ers!)
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 12:49pm |
I would make a formal complaint. I would also say something to the person that contacted you about it. They will feel terrible, but they will know who gave out the details.
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 1:40pm |
thanks ladys i know what yous are saying and i,m feeling much better about it now i have rung them and they appaligsed which is all i wanted and my records are now private which is what i wanted thanks nikki just in saying that it relly does help
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 2:10pm |
I'm all for using medical records as case studies as they have to use something to teach the students with (this is the same reason why I agreed to have a student MW share care with my MW).
But perhaps the way they contacted you was wrong? I personally think it would have been more respectful for a Records Clerk or similar to contact you in writing to ask if you minded if a student get in touch with you.
Good to hear you're feeling better about it though Lu. I felt the same about having another baby after what I went through this time, but I guess time heals all wounds. If you wanted to get some answers for closure or whatever I highly recommend speaking to your MW or requesting your labour notes and talking it all over. I know it made me feel a lot better (even though the MW said it was the most unpleasant labour she had been through in her many years of being a MW  We don't like to do things by halves  )
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 2:24pm |
I agree with Toni completely... talking things over really does help. I felt really disappointed with my birthing experience too and had to vent to my Mum who reassured me that getting out of the whole thing alive was more important than 'how well I performed' IYKWIM?
And you are doing a fabulous job raising James which will help him grow into a lovely young man... the birthing experience has nothing on that!
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 3:22pm |
thanks ladys now you got me crying the good cry not the ugly cry lol
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 8:19pm |
i have nothing much to add Lu, but just wanted to say I LOVE the pic of james on your sig!
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Posted: 28 June 2007 at 9:17pm |
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