Hmm, good question, I would love to know how parents of children that kill ,handle it, eg, the 10 year olds in England that killed James Bolger, or the 2 Columbine school murderers , ...the world isn't happy just blaming the kids, they have to blame the parents as well , it must be hard to still love their children for what they have done, but as parents...its hard to stop loving them .....