soooo upseting!!

I just went to pick my son up from daycare and just as i walked in i caught the bully (the one i have spoken of before for bullying Bay who is twice Bays size!) push Bay to the ground shove his face in the dirt and then kick him in the head!!!! i was so angry! i yelled across the playground!! but the boy didnt stop so i went up and growled him!! and he told me to go away!!
There were 2 teachers right there who did nothing until i kicked up a huge stink as i was very angry!!
They were telling him off so i just took Bay and left and balled my eyes out when i got to the car as it was soooooooooo horrible to see!! doesnt help being pregnant and teary about everything!!

I saw the bully do the same thing to my nephew a few weeks ago! and i cried then!! but its way more upseting when its my own boy

aww poor wee bay i agree with busy mum thats horrable that happen the teachers should off been right on to that at james childcare they do not put up with that at all big hugs hun

Oh I remember having a similar incident with Quinn at daycare when I was pregnant! And I too bawled all the way home!

I hope he is ok, other kids bullying my babe is something that makes me sadder than I could've ever (pre children) imagine being! And i second (third?) phoning the daycare, I am sure they should have been more onto it!

are you able to look around for another daycare - cause just by the comments you've made - they don't sound terribly good.

I hope that last post of mine makes sense as im starting to calm down and trying to think rationally about who i should put the pressure on???

that is horrible. What you can do is put a complaint in writing. They have to take it seriously. They can also get special funding for this boy so he can have a care person just for him, to watch him and to teach him how to interact with other children. And they can teach other children to tell the boy what they dont like about his behaviour.

Id kick up a big stink and not let this go. His behavour needs to be sorted out now while he is young.

Yeah I definitely second what the others have said- put something in writing and have the words 'formal complaint' in there, then they are legally obliged to follow it up. You poor thing that must be so heartbreaking to deal with

Thanks ladies i will be doing a formal complaint and im glad to know that this bully can actually get someone in to help him sort his behaviour out because i was thinking about it last night and if they kick him out hes just going to go to another daycare/kindy and be a problem bully there too! so we would just be fobbing the problem on!
I have just dropped Bay off at school after a horrible night sleep where he was up 3 times moaning about the bully!!! then when we got to school he wouldnt run off and play like he usually does and just sulked next to me!! he wouldnt even say hello to his little girlfriend or cousin!! and when he saw the bully he took off in another direction!!!
Also i noticed an unfamiliar face (not the boys parents though) following the boy around everywhere like she was monitoring him!? so who knows!? hopefully that is what she was doing.

could you talk to the parents of the bully???just a thought i had. do they know that their kid is a lil s**t?
i just wouldnt say that to them-maybe just say hey i have noticed our boys are having a few problems i was wondering if we could get togther to see if we can sort something out and discuss it.