Bassinet or Cot??

Yeah all that "helpful" advice, for the most part just made me feel like i wasn't doing anything right. pfft, now i know better... hey, my girls are still here, they are well behaved for the most part and growing and learning and Paris's language is great! (a little too good if you ask me..) mum came and helped out after i had paris, but she did everything, especially stuff i had just said i was gonna do... it made me feel like she thought i couldn't handle doing it.. was probably just helping out of the goodness of her heart but i took everything to heart and saw it as an insult.

now if people give me advice i say thank you, smile and most of the time just ignore it or store it away for a desperate situation in case it might actually work.