Hi , again with the above the waiting is probably the hardset part. I have had two failed IVF, I did get the ER (Egg Retrieval) however all they found was cumulus cells, I suppose that part was the hardest. We thought after ten years that IVF was the answer to it all but that was not meant to be, I would be prepared for the downfalls fertility treatment. The medication was OK I felt like I was going through the menopause at one stage (strictly speaking I was) but I handled that well. As for time off we are in Nelson and had treatment in ChCh so I took time off to coincide with ER etc. Anyway ask away I am only to happy to answer anything for you and hope I can help