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    Posted: 12 May 2011 at 8:30am
that yesterday when I found out my sister was pregnant I burst into tears? I feel so terrible cos it's meant to be such a happy time for her but its not for me as it's just another reminder of how crap my stupid body is!!! I am so gutted and I really am happy for her but I can't stop welling up every time I think about it
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No its not wrong! I have been in the same position with lots of friends and have put on the Happy face in front of them, and shed many a tear in private. Big Hugs and I hope its your turn soon
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I've done the same. I remember being rung up by both my brothers in a period of two weeks announcing number two on the way. I did manage to hold it together when talking to them but burst into tears after. So felt left behind, especially as I'm the girl out of the three of us.
I so understand how you feel Henna. I'm sure your sister is sympathetic and understands though. Hang in there. Your time will come. It;s just so hard not knowing when that will be.
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Thanks ladies... Mum told me today that she struggled with how on earth she was going to tell me especially with our recent visit back to FA. I am feeling a lot better this evening though had them over for tea and had a great time. I tell ya though I must be drinking the wrong water as there sure is something in the water here there are so many pregnant woman around it's crazy!
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Totally normal Henna. I started TTC well before any of my friends and family and was the last one to have DD. I think I locked myself away in my bedroom for a good day every time I heard news of a pregnancy. I would of course be thrilled for the people involved and would only cry in private, but it is really hard.






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Not wrong, totally normal in fact I'm amazed that you managed to have them round for dinner!!
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he he he I know! I couldn't believe I got through it with no tears at all....

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Good on you! my self preservation tactic is backfiring so might take a leaf out of your book x
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