she wont do No2s in the loo

I posted this in the toddlers thread but had no takers so thought I re-post it here and see if any of you ladies can suggest anything
Cailin has been toliet trained now for a good 4 months and she is great...BUT we still have not managed to get No 2s anywhere near the toliet.
Usually she just poos in her knickers or sometimes waits until her night nappy is on. She says she is not scaired of going to the toliet to do poos and often runs to the toilet to try but then comes out 2 secs later saying no poos. Then 1 min later there is a wopping poo in her knickers grrrrrr
we have tried offering her stickers or stamps if she goes to the loo but nothing like that seems to work...do i just wait until she gets it or is there anything else i could be trying
thanks girls

jake told me he didn't like the splash...but one day, he just did it. no suggestions. sorry

but when he did poo on the floor, i made him clean it up with me and we talked baout how we all do poos on the toilet

I have the same thing with my DD.....The wonderful mums on here just told me to be patient!! Sorry no help as I am going thru the same thing!!

I am sure one day they will just do it in the toilet!!

Ok , I havent ever mentioned this on this forum (or any for that matter ) My daughter is six , and she still soils her knickers.
She went to the toilet a couple of times when i toilet trained her, and then , she would run and hide and do it in her room, or wherever , I thought, "oh its just a phase , she'll grow out of it , no such luck ,I thought kindy might make her decide to be a big girl , she is , in everyway but that.
And don't think i havent tried anything, i have done sticker charts, star charts, i have taken her to the GP , shes had an xray done to check for constipation , and just last wednesday morning , we went for her second visit with the pediatric nurse at manukau superclinic.
Basically what C suffers from is what they call "sneaky poo syndrome ",where the bum isnt telling the brain it needs to go to the toilet and like an ostrich you stick your head in the sand and ignore it , shes not doing it on purpose , shes just got to a point where she cant .
And all i can do is keep up with the sticker charts , and praising her when she does it etc.
Its very difficult, and IM ashamed of it, im not ashamed of her, im ashamed that im that bad a mother that my daughter still soils her knickers, at her age, and its everyday , btw , not just once or twice a week .

So if you can at least make sure she knows the toilet isnt scary, just in case, and get her to try sitting on it a couple of times a day , it might be a good idea, id hate for anyone else to go through this

Thankyou Helen21, thats really nice of you to say , i just wish i had some magic way of making her feel ok about the toilet, I thought once she got to school it would change , kids are forgiving at 6 ,but im really worrying now that she wont have got out of the habit at 7, when kids start being a little crueler

I would perhaps take her to a play therapist. Just to see if they can help perhaps.

I am sure it is nothing too serious. Hope you guys come to the bottom of this.