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    Posted: 04 April 2008 at 6:59pm
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in sarahs class at school is a really horible girl! so far 4 of the parents have spoken to the teacher about this girl, she hits, kicks, pinches, pushes and says horrible and nasty things from lunches being horrible , to ugly clothes/hair/shoes that sarahs ugly, or her bag/clothes/togs even that i was and her nanna.
the other morning this girl even said to sarah infront of me and her mum that sarahs clothes were disgusting and ugly and sarah wasnt alowd to be her friend anymore!

what is the proper thing to do? the teacher is aware of this situation, and as far as i know so is the principal, but really what can they do?? should we speak to this girls parents? as im sick of my girl in tears every day as she doesnt want to go to school

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Poor Sarah! I hate seeing kids being bullied

The school should deal with it as bullying is very serious. There should be strategies and consequences that the teacher can use to help change the girls behaviour. I would speak to the teacher again and ask her politely what she is doing to help the sitiuation. If she says she is doing something about it then I'd give it a few days to see if it settles down and if not then I'd take it further - have a meeting with the Principal and let him/her know how bad it really is!!!

Do you know her parents very well??? If you felt comfortable you could speak to them and let them know how it is making Sarah feel and maybe then see if there is a change??

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poor sarah! it's so sad to know that a child can be so horrible. it's so upsetting being bullied, but even worse when it's your baby being bullied. The principal/teacher really does need to do something about this, just keep on at her until she does.
good luck.
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I agree with Anna - Teachers go through training to deal with bullying and should no matter what age the children are, have a zero tolerance to bullying.
If you're not satisfied with the teacher's answer then take it to the principle, still not happy - demand a meeting with the parents and teachers present.

I'm sure the bully's parents would be absolutely mortified to find out what their baby has been doing (if they were decent parents) so it would be good to let them know so that they can put in some strategies to stop it.

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Caitlin went through a stage where she was hitting and biting other kids, she is much younger than Sarah, but I was still absolutely gutted that MY BABY would inflict harm on another person. We worked really hard at home and at her day care and we seem to be over the worst now
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the teacher has been asked to do something by 6 parents now.
and the principal has also been informed of whats going on, as the teacher is so lovley but really unsure of what to do in the situation, which is a bit anoying.

amazingly the mother actually knows as one of the parents aproached her about it after the teacher seemingly did nothing, its a shame as the girls mum really is lovley but now just avoids everyone.

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