TTC after a M/C

Hey there, SOrry can't offer much help, as I M/Cd but haven't been lucky enough to fall PG since.
I too am really worried about how I will be once I do again, and know I will be a nervous wreck until bubs is born.
So no advice but these feelings are normal xx

OH yeah I am doing that too!!! Figured it couldn't do any harm so hey I'm all for it!

Yup if it happens it happens i'll try not to worry about it till then :)

I had 2 mc's before I got a sticky one. And I was terrified during that pregnancy until around 20 weeks when we had the anatomy scan and everything was still good. And even although now I've had a successful pregnancy when I fell pregnant again this time it has been even worse. I've relaxed a little now that my 13 weeks scan is all good, but until then I was a neurotic mess and at every twinge I was convinced that it was all over. But all seems well so I am now letting myself plan a bit and get excited. M/C messes with your head in so many ways. Hope you get your sticky little bean soon and you can enjoy it.

Yeah Babygiraffe. "Bad luck" is what they told me too. It would be better if they knew what the problem was so you knew what to expect next time instead of it being another wait and see. It was awful twice, I can't imagine what it must be like to have it happen even more times.

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It took 3 cycles for me to get UTD again after suffering a MC and I was a nervous wreck through the entire pregnancy, but I now have a beautiful healthy wee girl. I am now UTD again with baby #2 (which was a nice surprise) but I had bleeding for 3 weeks from about 7 weeks which I found incredibly stressful. I think after you have a MC you will probably never relax with any pregnancy which is sad as everyone should be allowed to enjoy being pregnant but I guess thats life.

Heres hoping you have a healthy sticky bubba soon

I've just spoken to my naturopath today as I had a miscarriage last week. I'm taking a zinc & a potassium supplement, last time to get pregnant I think I also took vit E and the potassium supplement also had iron in it.

I am unsure if I want to get straight back on the band wagon. Things are only getting back to normal now. My MW said that if I feel ok that there is no reason to try straight away. They used to say 3 months for emotional reasons plus I'm not sure if they're as clued up as some are now days with their cycles.

I think after my miscarriage last time it took me around 6 months to get pregnant again.

Just had to post here.

My mum had 1, then a miscarriage - then was told not to get pregnant for a while (she lost the baby at 16 or so weeks), got pregnant the next month I think and had a healthy baby... so I think most of the time it's a random event if only having one ...is it 1 in 10 ends in MC? :( So sad. I know someone who had 2 in a row then went on to have 4 healthy babies...

Even never having a MC I went through the whole pregnancy until about 35 or 36 weeks so so concerned, especially those first 20 weeks. Cause my mum lost one so late... I was happy to not find out I was pregnant until over 7 weeks, as it made that first little bit go faster!

I had DS1 then multiple mcs ranging from 5 weeks to 14 til we finally got a sticky with DS2. I was under huge amounts of stress and stuff but we just worked at simplifying and detoxing our lives. I had heavy bleeding at 14 weeks with DS2 which was freaky but we made it we've had 2 mcs since, both during periods of high stress so thats the key for us specially as we're going to be TTC #3 soon.

Good luck hun the only advice I have is don't overthink it x

I had four miscarriages before my daughter was born. I think that once the innocence is lost and the illusion is shattered that it does become harder to relax and let the pregnancy progress. But there are so many magical moments that make all the tears and fears worthwhile.

I have since had more miscarriages and lost twins. You cope and heal and grieve. And if you go with your heart you'll find out what you want.

I had a miscarriage earlier this year and it's sort of pushed me back into the baby boat.

Loss happens, but then again, so do miracles.