Home birth *perineal tear* & surgery?

So I have a question. Is there any mommas out there that ended up having a very bad tear and didn't get it stitched up right away or the stitches broke open and you didn't get it fixed right away? I had a unplanned home birth in 2018 and my stitched opened back up and and when I realized it a few days had gone by and it was too late to fix it and now I require surgery... has anyone gone through this surgery ? what was it like?

Edited by Allison266774 - 21 March 2021 at 1:29am