Life after baby loss

hhm, interesting title huh..

Well i have been readint this thanks to Emma who sent it to me to read. it has been wonderful and so far is exactly what ih ave been thinking and feeling.. and as the review by Emma (in the book reviews section - feritlity category) said.. it doesn't give reasons but just so helps you think, "ah, that's just what i was thinking/feeling/doing" it's wonderful. I think it also helps that it has the section on conceiving after miscarriage. It is helping alot, as while we are still taking it over.. i am finding myself with nagging fears of "what if it happened cos there was something wrong they didn't find" "what is it happens again" and also fears about just getting through the pregnancy. If we do go ahead it will be nice to actually plan and try for a baby, but i can't help wondering if that takes a little bit away from it considering we have only had surprises so far.

Anyway, this book is wonderfully wonderful.. so a big thank you to Emma, I will send it back once I've finished. Other mummies out there who have experienced loss - i thoroughly recommend this book!