father/daughter
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Topic: father/daughter
Posted By: ElfsMum
Subject: father/daughter
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:16am
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http://nz.news.yahoo.com/080406/9/4s2p.html
hmmm .... ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:24am
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They seem to have a good attitude about it *shrug* So long as you didn't grow up with the person, I don't think it's all that bad... having a kid is another matter though, but it looks like they are lucky and she is healthy.
If she had grown up with him (I think I read it right that she didn't) then that's veeery different. Partly because he could've been influencing her into it from a young age, and partly because of the relationship they would already have had. -------------  
 
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:11am
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I'm not as open minded about that kind of thing as you Alia! They both knew about their biological relationship, regardless of whether they grew up as a family with a father-daughter influence.
IMO its just wrong and gross, even more so to bring a child into it with all the physical and psychological implications. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:45am
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ewww they KNEW the were family ewwww SOME people are sick ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:12am
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yeah im very liberal but i think its wrong too... having a child with a biological relative like that is awful for the child both biologically and mentally:(
------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: MyBelly
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:13am
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ewww im sorry but i so dont find my dad sexually attractive, and from what i read she must have been about 1yr old when he left which means he probably wiped poop of her bum and now finds her sexually attractive??
i feel sorry for the baby involved, what a complicated family tree!! my father is also my grandfather, my mother is my half sister, my aunties and uncles are my half brothers and sisters and my grandmother is also my fathers ex partner. 
only in australia (hehe cheeky i know, and no offence to any australians PLEASE!!) |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:24am
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Yeah - as I said I think it's a bit messed to bring kids into it, but honestly other than that it doesn't effect anyone but them. It's their business IMO, it might not be for me, but if it doesn't hurt anyone else then what's the harm? -------------
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 12:06pm
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but it does though... it hurts the child..esp when it grows up..and its quite likely to have some biological issues too..:( i get the actual relationship bit..that happens often with seperated twins etc.. but its still gross:( ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:44pm
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I wasn't trying to have a go Alia, sorry if I sounded that way!
Its the fact that they both knew what their biological relationship was and that fact alone wasn't enough to put them off. Very weird to me. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: MyBelly
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 3:47pm
| just heard that they actually had a baby born in 2001 that died just after birth from a congenital disease, so they obviously knew the risks that this 2nd baby may have problems due to being conceived incestuously! |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:13pm
one word.......sick
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:31pm
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That is sick, disturbing and mean (to the child - the risks of birth defects in children born of incest has been well known for centuries).
It also makes me so sad that there are people out there that think you can't have a deep and meaningful relationship without sex. -------------  
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:35pm
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yes very true mrsmojo.. sadly most people are of this opinion! ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:44pm
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'Mr Deaves told Channel Nine that he "initially" thought having sex with his daughter was wrong.
"Emotions take over, as people no doubt realise. There are times during your life where emotions do rule the heart, it rules the head," he said' Hmmm. I think something else was ruling Mr Deaves - something much lower down than the heart (somewhere that many mens brains are thought to reside). -------------
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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:26pm
Well here's a picture of the happy *gag* family
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,23494958-5001028,00.html - News Story |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:46pm
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Sorry but it is just wrong to me on so many levels....and for the child, even if she is healthy imagaine if she ever has to explain it when growing up...gotta be hard! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:15pm
Hi, This is my mum and my big sister - no no they're the same person. Oh look and here comes my dad and grandad now - ah yep, they're the same person too. -------------
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Paws wrote:Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:25pm
But come on ladies...it's obvious why she finds him too sexy to resist, I mean, look at him! Who wants some good looking younger man when you can have an elderly, age-spotted git with moobs!  
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:07pm
Mmmm. He does have that sort of movie star appeal - if you're into Danny Devito playing The Penguin in Batman. -------------
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Posted By: thunderwolves
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:28pm
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did you notice the daughters name, almost rhymes with incest!!! ------------- http://alterna-tickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:26pm
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My first thought was ewwww!
But you lot make me giggle - moobs, and penguins and incest... -------------  Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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Posted By: Neeks
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:39pm
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LOL you lot are a crack up..
Talk about keeping it in the family!!! -------------  
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Posted By: popcorn
Date Posted: 11 April 2008 at 5:36pm
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They must be mistaking family love for being in love surely!!!!!!!!! its impossible to actually be in love with your Dad surely! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Jessica
Date Posted: 11 April 2008 at 8:05pm
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I watched a documentry on this recently, apparently it is something that happens quite often in seperated families and with adoption. It said it is becoming an increasing issue with the world as it is (attraction rather than actually reproducing)! They even discussed it with a someone who specialises in helping people deal with it in the UK ------------- 
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 11 April 2008 at 10:51pm
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creepy and weird!
i feel sorry for that poor child, just imagine what its going to be like for that kid at highschool when someone finds out that her grandads her DAD! i think it is so unfair on the kid, children are innocent and dont deserve to have to hav something like that hanging over them there entire life. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:32am
| There is an interview with them on 60 minutes tonight... |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:58am
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Yeah I saw that....not sure that I can bring myself to watch it mind you.... ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 7:18pm
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me neither!
im gonna put it in a really blunt ,immature way , the penis that she willingly let help make her daughter, made her too.... I've heard that some girls marry guys who remind them of their fathers , but this is going way too far !! |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:12pm
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Well said Kelly ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:14pm
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I watched it and I have to say their daughter is very cute. But it is very weird. ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:16pm
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Well, I watched it and am even more grossed out now cause they showed them kissing Also, they had another couple in Scotland who are half brother and sister who are in the same situation. They have the same mother and she walked in on them having sex one day then dobbed them into the police.
Apparently for both couples, they were charged with incest, however are allowed to live together on probation and aren't allowed to have sex or they will be thrown in jail.. I mean come on, of course they're still having sex!! |
Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:50pm
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pepsi im with you....sometimes people just have to suck it up and do whats right and not right to bring a child into the world like that..its creepy and just wrong..ick..:( sorry to be so opiniated but did you hear how lucky they were to even have a healthy child? ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: Mookey
Date Posted: 14 April 2008 at 11:44pm
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For Mr Deaves the sexual relationship was "absolutely fantastic".
Blerk!  ------------- http://www.cushytush.co.nz - |
Posted By: Paws
Date Posted: 15 April 2008 at 7:51am
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ewwwwwww Think I am very glad I didn't watch it!!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 15 April 2008 at 8:00am
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I only watched a bit of 60mins (in the ads of the show I was watching) but while I was watching they did some of the interview with their baby girl in the bath and I found myself wondering if he'll be sexually attracted to his daughter/grandaughter in 20 years and what he's going to do about that.
I also feel very very sorry for the older children, 9 & 14 from Ms Deaves previous relationship. They have now been interviewed and the interview has been broadcasted internationally so now all their school friends know their family's sordid affairs. I can't imagine it's going to be easy for them. -------------
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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 15 April 2008 at 4:37pm
Yeah I thought about him and his daughter/grandaughter as well but then again, I figured he'll probably be dead by the time she's an adult anyway.. The older kids don't know any differently so they think it's ok, but when they are older I'm sure it will dawn on them that it's pretty bad. |
Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 21 April 2008 at 11:34pm
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imagine the torment that poor kid will get when shes older at high school as soon as someone finds that out!!! poor thing. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |