*sigh*
Printed From: OHbaby!
Category: Support
Forum Name: Coping with infertility
Forum Description: Have you been trying to conceive unsuccessfully? Dealing with primary or secondary infertility? Get support, advice, and help coping here.
URL: https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29866
Printed Date: 18 December 2024 at 4:51am
Software Version: Web Wiz Forums 12.05 - http://www.webwizforums.com
Topic: *sigh*
Posted By: KH25
Subject: *sigh*
Date Posted: 11 November 2009 at 8:38pm
It's only Wednesday and I have already have 3 friends announce their pregnancy's this week  The longer time goes on, the more the announcements really get to me and get me down. Don't know how much longer I can put myself through it to be honest. Oh and it doesn't help that my second angel's due date is coming up next week.
Anyway, have another appointment with my specialist tomorrow so hopefully he has a plan of attack for me. Just needed to vent  ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com"> 
|
Replies:
Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 11 November 2009 at 9:02pm
I haven't been through m/c, but been through fertility issues. Not easy at the best of times. Feeling for you chick 
|
Posted By: Nickypicky
Date Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:36am
|
Oh, I can so relate, I've got the same thing going on. Went to visit friends in my old home town on the weekend (moved away 5 months ago). My best friend has just had her second (5 weeks old) and was very upset when I didnt want to stay with her for the weekend, but stuff that!!! Another friend is about 5 months preg and then my sister announces shes pregnant with number 4.
I think its just a case of what doesnt break us will make us stronger. I struggle to look at new babys or pregnant woment in the supermarket etc now. It not good but I'm sure it'll all go away once we get to cross that line too. |
Posted By: Nickypicky
Date Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:38am
| oh just realised you live in my old home town.... every second person there is pregnant..... you poor thing.... |
Posted By: mylilmosaic
Date Posted: 12 November 2009 at 9:18am
|
Kelly, I completely understand and hope that the specialist has a plan of action that will help. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
|
Posted By: KH25
Date Posted: 12 November 2009 at 12:54pm
|
Thanks girls - starting on clomiphene next cycle and had a pelvic ultrasound because of some mid cycle bleeding I have been getting so fingers crossed I get a bfp soon!
Nickypicky - totally agree that everyone around here seems pg or has a new baby! Doesn't help that I go to kids things and kindy etc so see even more! ------------- Kelly, mum to DD, 19Jun06 (26wks 1lb15oz) DS1, 24Oct10 (32wks 4lb11oz) and DS2, 31Dec11 (32wks, 4lb11) http://lilypie.com">
|
Posted By: asicsgal
Date Posted: 16 November 2009 at 7:40pm
|
Big hugs Kelly, not easy to go through. Sounds like your visit with the specialist went well. It's always feels like you are getting somewhere!!!! FX for a sticky bubba soon.
:) ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
|
Posted By: Flipsta
Date Posted: 20 November 2009 at 3:32pm
|
More hugs Kelly...It is so not fair at times and it is never easy at all hearing about other people's pregnancies.
We are in the same boat..3 or 4 babies due and pregnancies happening right now for everyone else but us! Keep positive though hun cause your time will come..  ------------- TTC since Oct 07 Clomid Oct 08-Feb09 - BFN's Lap done and endo excised April 09 3 x IUI's - BFN's IVF - Sept 10 |
Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 20 November 2009 at 8:27pm
|
Hugs hun!!!!!!! All I can say is vent away when we catch up. I wish there was something I could say or do to make you feel better. Just remember I'm always here for you -------------  My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months
|
Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 29 November 2009 at 10:21pm
|
hugs to you!!! I know how you feel....having started a maternity and nursing business I am now surrounded by bellys, and babies!!!! .....but it is forcing me to confront demons and get on with it....
I say new year....new baby!!!!
|
Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 30 November 2009 at 9:36pm
|
Wish I could help the pain go away Big hugs Kelly! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 3 Angels - Dec10 / Mar11 / Dec11
|