#3 taking longer than first 2?
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Topic: #3 taking longer than first 2?
Posted By: Skittle
Subject: #3 taking longer than first 2?
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 1:31pm
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Hi ya :)
I'm new to Oh Baby...I have a 5 year old and 3 year old and both were concieved first month of trying.We are now TTC #3 and this is my second month with a BFN (and yup, I know it is ONLY 2 months...it's just 2 months longer than I thought!)...I am 27 and have anywhere from a 26-31 day cycle, but more often than not it is 28 days. Just wondering if others ended up taking longer to concieve with subsequent children? Thanks :) |
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Posted By: notenufchaos
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:08pm
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wow that is exactly like me my DD's are 3 years and 18months and both conceived first month, i am now on month 3 of ttc number 3 - i know it will happen its just a shock lol ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 1-25/05/2008 DD 2-2/2/2010 |
Posted By: Skittle
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:09pm
| hehe I am the same - I am sure it will happen....I just want it to happen NOW! lol..and I expected it to, because of the previous times...and Im a bit obsessive...I dont know how to stop that 'expectation' each month if you know what I mean? |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:10pm
| Me too! DD is 4 1/2 - (concieved 1st month of trying), DS 18months(2nd month of trying), and ttc #3- this is 3rd monhth. |
Posted By: notenufchaos
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:12pm
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whats the bet we all end up with April babies lol ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 1-25/05/2008 DD 2-2/2/2010 |
Posted By: Skittle
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:13pm
| I wish, notenufchaos.....I am on day 22 (AF due next Wed) and took a test today (lol, Im toooo keen)...BFN....yes yes, could be too early...but not feeling great about it. |
Posted By: notenufchaos
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 2:41pm
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hehe yes i did the too early testing last two cycles so disheartening so this month im definately not testing until 12 dpo and only then as i have short luteal phases so af is due then lol ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 1-25/05/2008 DD 2-2/2/2010 |
Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 5:40pm
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In my case it was #2 that was really hard to conceive, took 16 months! Bit of a shock when #1 was a bit of an accident.
#3 was a bit of a surprise as well as we weren't trying, well unprotected s*x but other than that we weren't trying cause of a miscarriage the month before. Definitely didn't time it for any particular time to the month either! But I have been taking zinc & apparently that is supposed to help. ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com"> 
A = 01.02.04 & C = 16.01.09 & G = 30.03.12 |
Posted By: Keira
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 6:19pm
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Hi ladies,
Well i can tell you that i concieved both my girls whilst using contraception and totally had the mindset that no contraception = a pregnancy, so totally thought it would happen first month.I went May, June not concieving and as im 40yrs this year i started to really panic and think omg ive left it too late, something must be wrong with me.Well i concieved this month-july and are currently just over 4wks preggers now-so keep at it ladies. I used to read the TTC threads and think omg i dont even know that terminology, as id never had to.In saying that tho ive enjoyed the charting experience just to understand how my body works-but this month i stopped obsessing so much,obviously worked. GD luck |
Posted By: T_Rex
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 7:07pm
*lurking* But OMG Kel, congrats!! I hope this is an allergy-free baby for you  ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Skittle
Date Posted: 29 July 2011 at 7:13pm
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Thanks for the answers guys.
Congrats Keira - that's awesome! |
Posted By: boys.boys.boys.boys
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 8:30am
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Yep, another one here!
DS1 was conceived on contraception, DS2 was conceived the first month after stopping the pill (while still BF full time!) We are now 6+ months into TTC and still waiting.... hum ho! As you all say, I know it will happen when it is meant to be, but still.... ------------- 4 boys!! 7 years, 5 years, 2 years and 8 weeks... |
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 4:03pm
 this is not the news I wanted to hear. #1 DS, 2nd month trying. #2 DD, 1 month trying. #3 Testing next week first month.... ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel  07/08/2014
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Posted By: Raspberryjam
Date Posted: 04 August 2011 at 8:45pm
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meh me too!
I have never not been pregnant for this long!! (well while trying obviuosly) First two only took a couple of months Havent been using anything since my last bub was born a year ago - AF returned in April and Im still minus a bump. Im starting to wonder ...... ------------- http://lilypie.com] 
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Posted By: Skittle
Date Posted: 05 August 2011 at 7:39am
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I just thought I should probably update....I got a bit ahead of myself starting this thread! Turns out I AM pregnant this month...so didnt take long at all really! I really feel for all the people trying that are having no luck...it is a complete mind f**k - you are constantly aware of what day you are, where you should be, what may or may not be happening etc....I don't mean to sound naive or anything, I just don't know how you cope with going through that all for so long. I am such an impatient person, and found even this long a big screwy mind muck up!!
Baby dust to all those trying, best of luck! |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 05 August 2011 at 8:23am
| Yay congrats, thats awesome! Totally know what u mean about it being all-consuming and screwing with your mind. I already feel like we have been ttc forever too, but its hardly been any time at all really. |
Posted By: boys.boys.boys.boys
Date Posted: 05 August 2011 at 8:29am
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I know what you mean!
Last time I ovulated (a couple of months ago!) my AF was 6 days late, boy was that bad news, we had got so excited, practically chosen names 
Never mind, at least I know I can be pregnant, it must be harder for some of these 1st timers that take a while... ------------- 4 boys!! 7 years, 5 years, 2 years and 8 weeks... |
Posted By: Raspberryjam
Date Posted: 05 August 2011 at 5:30pm
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congrats skittle!!! im green with envy!! ------------- http://lilypie.com]
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Posted By: notenufchaos
Date Posted: 11 August 2011 at 7:26pm
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well im now onto month four ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 1-25/05/2008 DD 2-2/2/2010 |
Posted By: boys.boys.boys.boys
Date Posted: 12 August 2011 at 7:08am
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Notenufchaos, I'm here too... Well cycle 3 of charting, which also wouldnt be so bad if my cycles were nicely 28days instead of nearly 2 months each cycle!!
------------- 4 boys!! 7 years, 5 years, 2 years and 8 weeks... |
Posted By: notenufchaos
Date Posted: 12 August 2011 at 9:33am
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haha yeah i get you on the long cycles i started taking B6 last cycle and my cycle was shorter by around 5 days and i oed a week earlier was awesome lol ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 1-25/05/2008 DD 2-2/2/2010 |
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 12 August 2011 at 3:29pm
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Ugh, I'm in second month. Its weird. DD was concieved a week after I came off the pill. I hate having AF its dumb. ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel 07/08/2014
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Posted By: rorylex
Date Posted: 12 August 2011 at 7:54pm
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hey ladies
we are ttc for our 5th baby. ds1 - took 6mths, though he wasnt planned we werent preventing either. ds2 - we had only started to discuss another baby and i was pregnant. ds3 - took 10mths but i was breastfeeding. ds4 - we were ttcing 8mths well ds4 was suppose to be our last so i tried BC i tried depo, then mirena that came out and we decided we would like another baby but af had some bad reaction to depo wearing on and mirena hormones. so went on some pill which i stuck to for a month but hated coz it made me depressed. decided to just stop any BC and let body work its self out, now 1.5yrs after having ds4 i finally have a somewhat regular af but its still a bit long it was 42days for 2 cycles but the last cycle was 35days and I know I deff ov'd that month. Im now looking at charting when af comes and have got heaps of opk's. I am pretty sure i ov'd in the last few days and also sure we missed it as dh has man flu. ------------- Mummy to 4 boys Samuel - 18.6.05 Rory - 15.7.06 Mason - 13.06.08 Emmett - 24.01.10 Baby #5 - cooking |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 30 August 2011 at 7:32am
| Hows everyone getting on? Im now mid-cycle of our 3rd month ttc #3, and really really hoping this is our month! |
Posted By: boys.boys.boys.boys
Date Posted: 30 August 2011 at 7:58am
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I am somewhere in my cycle, I have no idea where. Despite having EWCM on two seperate occassions and a temp rise the day after each, my temp has then after each dropped again and has nicely flatlined at 36.5!!! Grrrr!!
At least I am seriously enjoying my time with my two boys!!  ------------- 4 boys!! 7 years, 5 years, 2 years and 8 weeks... |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 30 August 2011 at 8:09am
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I dont have much clue about temping at all.
Using opks but not temping yet. I find that last week before my period is due really tough mentally, and I find it easier to cope by blocking out all things baby from my head,...so Im not temping cos i think it would make me stress more by having to take my temp each day during that time. I would like to be preg within the next 6 months so Im not heavily preg/due in Dec/Jan/Feb. |
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 31 August 2011 at 10:26am
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I'm almost at the end of mine *hoping hoping* ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel 07/08/2014
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Posted By: boys.boys.boys.boys
Date Posted: 31 August 2011 at 10:34am
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Good luck Bessie Bear, I have my fingers crossed for you!! (Maybe we can all join you and have a mass 3rd child due in May!!)
I dont think opk's would be very good for me, my cycles lately have been about 60-70 days long, I would go through SO many each cycle!!! I stocked up on AF products the other day again though in the hope that Murphy's law might happen and I dont need them!!! ------------- 4 boys!! 7 years, 5 years, 2 years and 8 weeks... |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 31 August 2011 at 1:52pm
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Lol I do that too rosieh- and things like planning to get my hair dyed as a consolation prize if I dont get preg this month,...but hoping I will have to cancel instead!
Have nearly run out of 3 months supply of folic acid so gonna have to ring midwife to get more. |
Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 01 September 2011 at 11:34am
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Kellz isn't it funny I found temping made it way less stressful coz I could see what my body was doing so knew what my chances were for a BFP (though we've neer actually had a chance to chart for a BFP just used it as birth control lol). FX there are some BFPs this cyles ladies!!!! -------------   
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Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 01 September 2011 at 1:30pm
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LoL rosyh, I hope that works out for you, my lady cup is waiting for its sterilation..maybe murphy and I can have an agreement that way ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel 07/08/2014
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