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Single parent by choice question

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Forum Name: Single parenting
Forum Description: Share tips, trials and tribulations about parenting alone
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Printed Date: 23 November 2024 at 11:27pm
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Topic: Single parent by choice question
Posted By: Fragi266899
Subject: Single parent by choice question
Date Posted: 02 April 2021 at 1:14pm
Hello :)

I'm not a parent yet. But I've wanted to be a mom since I was like 8 years old. I always wanted to be married and have kids before I turned 30, just so I'd have the energy to raise my kids in a fun way. I was with my ex for five years and he convinced me we'd have kids around that age and then a few months before my thirtieth birthday he cheated and dumped me. I started to research sperm donors and in vitro fertilization blah blah I was amped up. I am not set up to be a parent yet. I'm still getting my life together and don't want to drag a kid into chaos. But I'm getting there and once I do, if still single I thought it'd be a great way to have a child. But then I watched a video of dad's and babies, and felt like I would be depriving my child of such an important part of them…

So I have a question to all the single parents here... what's your take on single parenting by choice?? Is it selfish to bring a baby into a solo relationship parent situation? https://shareit.onl/" rel="nofollow - https://shareit.onl/ https://appvn.onl/" rel="nofollow - https://appvn.onl/



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