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Jennz 
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 Posted: 18 May 2006 at 10:04pm |
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Unless her Mum has said something to her?... otherwise definitely yours!
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Jen, Charlotte 7 & Kate 3 
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Caterpillar
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Posted: 19 May 2006 at 4:46pm |
Does she realize that it was just a lend? I've had similar "misunderstandings" where i lend something but they think its a gift, v frustrating! May need to c if ur both on the same page coz its ur stuff & ur entitled to get it back weather shes finished with it or not 
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my2angels
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Posted: 19 May 2006 at 4:51pm |
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yeah she knew it was only a loan because at the start when I was pregnant we said she couldnt use anything but then lost the babies (she was due the same week) but it was clear we would need it back when we did have a baby. Plus her mum brought us a couple of other things (first grandchild so she was all excited and went shopping when I was like 7 weeks preggie) like a pushchair and bassinet and we gave SIL the pushchair and brought a new one because we thought we would need a double but kept the bassinet in storage because she had one. Im going to send hubby around there hopefully this weekend to get it, fingers crossed
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Posted: 20 May 2006 at 6:12pm |
Yeah good idea 2 send hubby round - u dont need the stress! Good luck
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aimeejoy
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Posted: 14 July 2006 at 1:34pm |
Right I feel the need to restart this thread...!
Why do the in-laws not feed Hannah lunch when I leave her with them? I have been leaving her with them from 11-12ish a couple of times a week while I go to work. There is a little lunch box full of things and I always get it out and say she will be needing lunch soon. And they wonder why she cries! 
But wait theres more... Some of you may remember our "friends" who "borrowed" money off us before Hannah was born, well theres still $1100 to go... Now Daniel hasn't been paid for 7 weeks and we are starting to get poor. He was self-employed but this job came up at a new business which was perfect for Daniel. Well he got paid for the first 5 weeks, then they ran out of money and no work coming in so we havent been paid. He wants to keep sticking it out in case it does all work out. I think it is now at the point of ridiculous and the longer he stays the more they owe us and the less likely it is they will be able to afford to pay us off - getting close to $4000 now.  He just makes me sooo mad cos he won't listen to what I'm saying and he is meant to be providing for us, but I am having to do lots of work now too  Oh and just to make him seem even more stupid he is working extra (Saturday) and obviously not being paid, then on Sunday he's going racing with money we dont have.
OK, done now...
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lizzle
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Posted: 14 July 2006 at 1:56pm |
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You may want to ring WINZ aimee to see if there is anything they can do. maybe nothing, but it would do to help.
if it's any consolation, my nana is the same as your inlaws - she's feed them, but doens;t change the kids. They can be in nappies all day and STINK, but she won't notice.
as for the money thing.....I hATE MONEY>>>>well, more specifially I hate not having enough to buy a small island that I can live on and only let people visit when I feel like it.
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Roksana
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Posted: 14 July 2006 at 2:01pm |
Oh no Aimee....first let me say... 
First...how stupid of your Inlaws to not feed Hannah...are they lazy or some thing? Do you have any one else who can look after her while you are at work? Arrggg I have the opposite problem, Zaara's grand parents stuff her with all kinds of food while she is with them..
Man I thought that you must have got all the money back from the friend. I think it is a bit too much ....take them to disputes tribunal (sp??).
And your hubby....hmmmm....dont know what to say but may be have a real serious talk with him and tell him how you feel and that you would like him to take you seriously specially in these kinda matters. Good luck with that!!! Hope he wakes up and smells the coffee...sorta speak....soon!!!
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Posted: 14 July 2006 at 2:12pm |
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aimeejoy
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Posted: 14 July 2006 at 2:43pm |
Thanks lovely ladies 
I hate money too Liz, but only cos we never seem tohave enough. I think my MIL doesnt always think logically anymore, since she had her stroke last year. But, yay! my mum is back next week to look after Hannah. And yes, going to have some serious discussions tonight I think!
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 15 July 2006 at 12:53pm |
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OMG not feeding that is just the worse. MIL and FIL feed Andrew up on sugar and it annoys the hell out of me. He gets a lollie when he gets there and then another one and another and then, they think that he has to have 2 to get into his car seat. I don't know how many times I have said Andrew and sugar doesn't work - but still they give it to him. I tell them they are feeding his ADAH but still they think it is funny when he is all hyped up. I don't he's hard enough to get to sleep without all that sugar in his body.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 25 July 2006 at 1:31pm |
RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANT!!!!!!!!
Devil child won't go to sleep. I've been trying for an hour. She was showing tired signs and usually goes to bed around 12.30... why not today?!?!??!?!?!?
ARghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
On the plus side, I think it shows that she is getting better.
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Posted: 27 July 2006 at 2:21pm |
ohh hunny it drives ya nuts sommetime doe,st it big hugs 
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Posted: 30 July 2006 at 10:48am |
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Uh Oh Nikki - is she ready to give up her day time sleep? Maya was ready long before I was...
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 01 August 2006 at 10:42am |
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I think it was because she had been having huuuuuuge sleeps when she wasn't feeling well and then decided she was feeling great so didn't need a sleep. I eventually lay down with her and she dropped off for ages and I had to wake her to make sure she'd be tired for bed time!
She's back to pretty normal sleeps now, thank god. Well, as normal as you can have when you are in a different house with grandparents and greatgrandparents fussing over you!!!
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