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ElfsMum
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Topic: father/daughter Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:16am |
http://nz.news.yahoo.com/080406/9/4s2p.html
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AliaDawn
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:24am |
They seem to have a good attitude about it *shrug* So long as you didn't grow up with the person, I don't think it's all that bad... having a kid is another matter though, but it looks like they are lucky and she is healthy.
If she had grown up with him (I think I read it right that she didn't) then that's veeery different. Partly because he could've been influencing her into it from a young age, and partly because of the relationship they would already have had.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:11am |
I'm not as open minded about that kind of thing as you Alia! They both knew about their biological relationship, regardless of whether they grew up as a family with a father-daughter influence.
IMO its just wrong and gross, even more so to bring a child into it with all the physical and psychological implications.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:45am |
ewww they KNEW the were family ewwww SOME people are sick
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ElfsMum
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:12am |
yeah im very liberal but i think its wrong too... having a child with a biological relative like that is awful for the child both biologically and mentally:(
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:13am |
ewww im sorry but i so dont find my dad sexually attractive, and from what i read she must have been about 1yr old when he left which means he probably wiped poop of her bum and now finds her sexually attractive??
i feel sorry for the baby involved, what a complicated family tree!! my father is also my grandfather, my mother is my half sister, my aunties and uncles are my half brothers and sisters and my grandmother is also my fathers ex partner.
only in australia (hehe cheeky i know, and no offence to any australians PLEASE!!)
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:24am |
Yeah - as I said I think it's a bit messed to bring kids into it, but honestly other than that it doesn't effect anyone but them. It's their business IMO, it might not be for me, but if it doesn't hurt anyone else then what's the harm?
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 12:06pm |
but it does though... it hurts the child..esp when it grows up..and its quite likely to have some biological issues too..:( i get the actual relationship bit..that happens often with seperated twins etc.. but its still gross:(
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:44pm |
I wasn't trying to have a go Alia, sorry if I sounded that way!
Its the fact that they both knew what their biological relationship was and that fact alone wasn't enough to put them off. Very weird to me.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 3:47pm |
just heard that they actually had a baby born in 2001 that died just after birth from a congenital disease, so they obviously knew the risks that this 2nd baby may have problems due to being conceived incestuously!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:13pm |
one word.......sick
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:31pm |
That is sick, disturbing and mean (to the child - the risks of birth defects in children born of incest has been well known for centuries).
It also makes me so sad that there are people out there that think you can't have a deep and meaningful relationship without sex.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:35pm |
yes very true mrsmojo.. sadly most people are of this opinion!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:44pm |
'Mr Deaves told Channel Nine that he "initially" thought having sex with his daughter was wrong.
"Emotions take over, as people no doubt realise. There are times during your life where emotions do rule the heart, it rules the head," he said'
Hmmm. I think something else was ruling Mr Deaves - something much lower down than the heart (somewhere that many mens brains are thought to reside).
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:26pm |
Well here's a picture of the happy *gag* family
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:46pm |
Sorry but it is just wrong to me on so many levels....and for the child, even if she is healthy imagaine if she ever has to explain it when growing up...gotta be hard!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:15pm |
Paws wrote:
Sorry but it is just wrong to me on so many levels....and for the child, even if she is healthy imagaine if she ever has to explain it when growing up...gotta be hard! |
Hi, This is my mum and my big sister - no no they're the same person. Oh look and here comes my dad and grandad now - ah yep, they're the same person too.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:25pm |
But come on ladies...it's obvious why she finds him too sexy to resist, I mean, look at him! Who wants some good looking younger man when you can have an elderly, age-spotted git with moobs!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:28pm |
did you notice the daughters name, almost rhymes with incest!!!
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