Hitting

not such a new thing, but Jake is hitting big time. He slaps really really hard and giggles. I keep saying "no, we don't hit people" but he giggles at me and hits again. I don't wanna hit him back as I figure that's a bit counter-productive, any ideas? he slapped me in the face today and as we got up at 6AM with no naps today I was very very angry and had to walk away...but regardless of my mood, i really don't want him hitting.

that's the same as we do - saying "no, we don't hit, that hurts!" and then putting them down and walking away - because usually for kids that age, that immediate loss of attention from mum or dad is enough to make them pretty upset and teach them that hey, if i hit then mummy goes away and i'm left to play by myself.

definately praise for nice play too like Maria said.. when he does play nice or give cuddles stress how much you like them, when he hits, just say no and put him down.. that way he's getting attention for the good behaviour not the bad.

Yeah, I'll try the no attention thing, but it doesn't help at the moment we are at the PIL's who think the sun shines out of Jake's bum!! He gets sooooo much attention and is going through so much change. Got more sleep today so am feeling a lot better about coping. Was nearly in tears all day yesterday. And Jake hasn't been hitting as much today.....hopefuly just a phase..if not, watch out palmy BBQ!

Arna will for sure!! She's been doing the hitting thing too but as attention for me to put her down!! So if she get's tired and grumpy at the BBQ we will just put the 2 of them together for a taste of their own medicine!!

Kiya will sort them out she is such a little madam!

I know! Isn't she fantastic!!!