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Lulu 
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 Posted: 21 March 2009 at 9:55pm |
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I had no issues with this and got back on the 'horse' early days... sorry if TMI - I would check it out with your ob Ginger for sure.
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ginger
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Posted: 22 March 2009 at 12:22pm |
It turns out, it just needed some dedication to the cause  I'm not sure what the cause was/is, but it's gradually coming right.
Thanks so much everyone for your feedback - I really appreciate(d) it!
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toniellis
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Posted: 22 March 2009 at 1:35pm |
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LOL @ "dedication to the cause" that is SUCH a brilliant way to put it!!
On a more serious note, good that it is coming right. Something that is often a problem which I forgot to mention is that it is natural after childbirth for down there to tighten up because with normal birth it has to... When you have a c-section your body still "tightens up" even though Bubs has not actually gone through the birth canal.....IYKWIM? Also a common thing also to happen is a lack of self lubrication...
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jacobsmummy
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Posted: 22 April 2009 at 8:39am |
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Yes i rember it hurting after after c-section we waited 5wks before doing it.
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 27 April 2009 at 3:33pm |
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Oh god, I am petrified now! Not that I have any desire to be getting busy right now, I certainly will be making sure I have some lube handy before we go down that road again.
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Bobbie
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Posted: 01 May 2009 at 2:53pm |
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I remember asking my MW at 2 weeks when I could BD again and she looked suprised to say the least lol! I think we did it at 4 weeks as per MW instructions and it was fine although a bit tight and definitely needed the lube.
ETA: To clarify the MW instructions related to the timeframe not the actual act lol
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Mum2L
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Posted: 29 May 2009 at 10:42pm |
I was told by the docs to wait 6 months PP until DH and I even attempt to BD, due to the horrid recovery I had during thr first 6 weeks PP.
We did try it once at 4 months PP, and it too sore. We didn't even do the whole hog, and I couldn't believe how tight everything was, even though we used a tonne of lubrication. And I think all of the oxytocin that whizzes around your body when you are breastfeeding desensitises everything down there 
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 21 June 2009 at 11:37am |
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It wasnt too bad, was armed with plenty of lube. It did hurt, but I was prepared for that.
I think after a few more rounds we should be back to normal.
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Sex after a c-section
