Are you wondering when your baby is finally going to start crawling? They may have been rolling around the room for a couple of months, and inching along on their tummy, or even getting up on all fours and rocking back and forth, they haven't quite figured out how to get their arms and legs coordinated so they can go places.
If you're curious to know when your baby is going to start crawling, keep in mind that crawling usually happens after your baby has mastered the art of sitting. Crawling sometimes doesn't happen until several months after they learn to sit, although some babies learn to crawl first and sit soon afterwards. A baby's desire and enthusiasm to crawl will coincide with their desire to lie on their stomach. They may have once hated tummy time, but once they can roll over themselves and get used to laying on their belly, and have then started to get up on all fours, crawling should follow soon after.
Floor time play should be encouraged, so your baby can discover the art of holding their head up and pushing up on their hands. A proper crawling position, which is moving along deliberately with the tummy off the ground, is unusual before six months.
However, even though your baby has not fully mastered crawling, it doesn't mean that they are totally unable to move at all, so be mindful that they can easily put themselves in dangerous situations. You may turn your back for an instant and turn around to find that they have inched their way over to the TV cord or are pulling at a low-hanging tablecloth! Now is the time to child-proof your house, if you have not already done so -- it's better to take care of this now, while your baby is still relatively stationary, because once they're crawling, they will really get into things!
If your baby objects to lying on their tummy and prefers to lay on their back, don't fear -- they are probably just enjoying the social contact of watching you. Once they are old enough to roll onto their stomach independently, they will do so, so there is no need to force them to spend time on their stomach.
You can encourage tummy time by laying them on their belly across your lap, propping them up on their tummy on a breastfeeding or tri-pillow (supervised, so that they don't slide face-down into the pillow), or putting them on their tummy on a play mat with interesting textures and sounds. You can also get right down onto the floor and make eye contact with them -- sometimes a close-up audience is all a baby needs in order to spend time on their tummy without a fuss!
Not all babies will learn to crawl at the same time. Some take two days to master the skill, while some take two months to really get going. Some babies don't crawl at all -- they learn to sit and then they bum-shuffle around, or simply spend lots of time rolling to their desired destination. Some babies go right from sitting into pulling up on furniture and cruising around. Often at about the ninth month, when a baby may just begin crawling, the direction may be wrong and they may go backwards instead of the intended forward. There is no set "normal" for crawling.
You do not need to help your baby learn how to crawl or sit, just give them plenty of opportunities to learn it themselves. Here are some things to remember:
Your baby will learn how to walk when he or she is a toddler (from one year to 2.5 years). Walking is a dramatic achievement, and will dramatically change your toddler's life, as well as yours. Where you may once have been able to leave your baby in a room for a few minutes alone while you ran to the bathroom, and returned to find them in the same place, you may find that you will now have to watch them every second. They also may resist being in their pram, front-pack or sling, as they want to practice this new skill. And they may find it hard to sleep at night just as they learn to walk, as babies who are learning a new skill quite often wake up in the night to practise it in their cot.
There are several stages that a baby must go through to learn how to walk. The age that these stages are reached will vary, as every baby is different.
If your child isn't walking and you are concerned about their development, talk to your well child care provider. Remember that all babies develop differently, and just because another baby of the same age as your child is walking doesn't mean that your child is behind. The other parents may actually be jealous of you, as you're not yet being run off your feet chasing after a little toddler!